Where’s the Help?

There is a commercial running during the NCAA Basketball Tournament. It is for Dove Mens care. The ad is here. The tag line is this; "It takes skill to win but it takes care to be a winner." It shows different situations where someone who has lost or is struggling to finish is helped by another…Read more Where’s the Help?


The Day That Life Stopped

It was a Sunday just after Easter, when everything came crashing down. You'd think that putting it in the rear view mirror, even years later, one would move on. But some things aren't moveonable-even after the passage of time. So I am stuck in a Groundhog Day type of life. I know many of us feel…Read more The Day That Life Stopped

A lesson from Kill Bill

A lonely person will make very poor choices when desperate for any sort of intimacy. Combine the loneliness with an inferiority complex and it becomes dangerous. Add to that a fear of intimacy and get ready for certain disaster. I am replaying in my mind the many situations in which I exemplified what not to…Read more A lesson from Kill Bill

Grid Girls…GONE!

This week the F1 series of auto racing announced the following: “While the practice of employing grid girls has been a staple of Formula 1 Grands Prix for decades, we feel this custom does not resonate with our brand values and clearly is at odds with modern-day societal norms. We don’t believe the practice is…Read more Grid Girls…GONE!

The Church is… the Worst!

Dear church, If you want to keep sticking your head in the sand, don't read the linked story. "...Biblical teachings about grace and repentance were being weaponized against victims, pressuring them into offering an easy forgiveness to their abusers." (excerpt from Rachael Denhollander ) First Woman To Accuse Nassar Says Church Can Be One Of 'Worst…Read more The Church is… the Worst!

Social media responsibility in the current sexual harassment climate

I am not on any social media platforms, I merely glean from an external perspective and test the temperature of what is being commented upon. There is plenty of information published that makes the opinions of the general public known to all. It is in this that I am compelled to plead with those who…Read more Social media responsibility in the current sexual harassment climate

this is why..

People kill themselves. There is nothing worth living for, more specifically, there isn't enough good to outweigh the incredible pain. I totally get it. The psychiatrist doesn't care, he gives you another med and says see a therapist. The process of even looking for a therapist is daunting and intimidating, and you are in no…Read more this is why..